I used to spend so much time comparing myself to others, constantly measuring my progress against people who seemed to have it all figured out. I’d look at their point B—successful businesses, thriving networks, and seemingly endless opportunities—and wonder why I wasn’t there yet. It was exhausting and disheartening, always feeling like I was behind or missing out. But then I realized something that changed my perspective completely: I was ignoring my point A, the very foundation of my journey.
Accepting my point A meant acknowledging where I was without judgment. It meant understanding that everyone’s journey is different, and the speed at which we travel doesn’t determine the value of our destination. Once I embraced this, I started to see the beauty in every stage of my business journey. The slow phases, which once felt like endless waiting, became times of reflection and learning. I began to appreciate the small victories, the lessons learned from failures, and the relationships built along the way.
Had I continued to rush the process, desperate to reach that elusive point B, I would have missed so much. The challenges I faced, the skills I developed, and even the doubts I overcame were all part of a bigger picture. They were shaping me into a better entrepreneur, someone who understood the value of persistence and patience. By slowing down and focusing on my own path, I began to build something sustainable, something uniquely mine.
Now, when I see others succeeding, I no longer feel the need to compare. Instead, I find inspiration in their stories, knowing that they too had a point A. My journey is my own, and it’s unfolding exactly as it should. Embracing my point A has not only made me a better entrepreneur but also a more grounded and grateful person. Every moment, every step, is part of a process that’s worth cherishing.